Thursday, May 27, 2004
Indah khabar dari rupa,NOT
I went to Fitri's meetdaparent session,biasalah,report book day,or so called doom's day for students :p (as it was known by my mates and several others during my school days.)something unpleasant to say to some1 suffering of cancer - KID shud i say...
While waiting for the form teacher to attend to first few parents, Fit's malay teacher(as well as Nash) called me.well, i thought wanted to meet her after the form, but since she no "customer" she decided to call me and personally invited me to her table :p muahah.i was with Nash tho,Fit has his CTY so he was sweating in the field with his instructor and team-mates.
ok, so we talked about the boys' progress and how they are in school, its very surprising to know how timid both my brothers can be in school!well, not timid lah. just that they are just not who they are in school, which is good,tak menyusahkan orang.im glad for that.haha. at least they know how and where to behave. *grins*
Somehow i decided to ask about Din,my cousin repeated his p5 cos of his tumour.I wanted to know how he was coping with friends.studies, he is doing kinda well despite his sickness.
and i was shocked wen the teacher said, "arujuddin tu nakal nah sgt.susah nak layan budak jahat mcm tu."
i felt pang~ Lucky it was me who heard it,wat if the mother?
I told her,IF wat u said were the OLD din,yes,he was very very noty,but not diff to manage.but she said,recent.
yikes.NO, i don tink so. he's much more reserved and only play with a group of friends. Kalau lah cikgu tau,betapanya susah die melawan penyakit die, betapa tabahnya dan cekalnya hati seorang anak itu. masa bapanya meninggal dunia last year,die langsung tidak tau die sendiri menghidap penyait cancer. ahli keluarga puyn tidak tau. selama 6 tahun doktor asyik katakan, tonsilitis aja.setelah selidik punya selidik,dan 6 tahun menda tu membesar kat hidung,sambung ke telinga,sambung ke dahi.besar kan tu?bayangkan,muka kecil anak itu.
dulu dia nakal pun bersebab,hanya form teacher nya saja yang tahu.
dari dulu die sedang menanggung derita kesakitan nya.din seorang yang tidak suka menunjukan die sedang sakit. die lebih suka menepis segala rasa yang ada.
seperti sekarang, die hanya senyum dan ketawa. tapi dalamnya,orang tak tau.I asked, cikgu tau kan die ade cancer, abe die kate, ye saya tau,tapi tu lah, betul lah tak tahan dgn karenah bdk2 camtu.
karenah bdk2 camtu?wat does that mean eh? bdk2 penyakit camtu eh? ape karenah die? setahu aku,sedangkan kat hospital berdikari, apa lagi kat sch?he was very prepared for school after long "holidays".and operations.and he still has 1 more OP to go,to remove the tissues on his right side of cheek.
Jika benar budak itu nakal, wajarkah berkata demikian? begitukah berdepan dengan masyarakat?begitukah untuk mengkritik seseorang budak? yes,he is already 12 years old, but not ordinary 12 yr olds.he is much wiser and mature than those same age as him. and so was other KIDS cancer patient like him, they are much braver and tougher than any of their age,in fact , some adults too.
you know how i know about din and all this, because his form teacher cried wen HE told me about din's progress and how he coping, he had never seen any child as brave as him before,even tho there are much braver and toughr kids out there than din.His teacher said, even tho din failed, his marks are not so bad, all his subjects are just mere fail, only 1 or 2 marks away frm passing. for his case, he's not that bad. with his MCs' and constant theraphy,he stil can cope that well.
His mother told me, the othee time wen he had maths, he had to think real hard and had a severe headache. the teachers told him, relax,don force himself to think that hard.don drain himself, but he tried he's very best.n he got 49 out of 100 for maths. n still, he dissapointed.
i salute these kids,for being so brave and tough to go through such ordeal...they are the bravest kidos i knew... ade yang 2 tahun, ade 3 tahun tu, he can walk, but super duper very fast,running, his caretakers cant catch him. he need 4 caretakrs. imagine that! haha. they are just so cute!
my idol - my cousin,din... =)
cOnfus~ED Paranoia Freak @ 7:54:00 PM ||
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